Wednesday, March 20, 2013

The next step

So, SPM results are coming out tomorrow. Can I say congratulations to all those receiving them in advance? You completed another education level! YEAY!

A friendly advice; 

No, it is not gonna be easier in University
What they tell you in school are all lies. 

"This will be the toughest phase in your life, Uni is so much easier."- A constant lie people tell you so you will be excited to go to University.

The funny thing is, once you are actually in the Uni, the truth prevails. - "This is the easiest thing you are going to see in your career."

Sorry, I am not trying to scare you but I am doing you a favour of telling you the reality. What you decide to do next, is really important. Therefore, DO WHAT YOU WANT!

For those, getting excellent grades, Congratulations. You have just made yourself eligible for a stepping stone to better future. Take a moment and think exactly what you want to become. Some of you might be so fortunate to receive various offers and scholarships. However, do evaluate them and choose the right one for you. Do not accept the offer just because they are from a reputable entity but rather choose them because they offer you what you needed to become what you dreamed of becoming. I have seen many people make a wrong decision after SPM because they were too eager to show-off or do not stand their ground. Sometimes, less is more. ;)

For those who are getting good grades, my advice are the same as above. Strive for it, you will never know what you are capable of unless you go for it. Oh and no matter how mixed you results are, keep a positive mind. You do not need to earn straight A+ to get the best, all you need to have is confidence and the willing to apply for the course you want (and even perhaps a scholarship) APPLY THEM ALL! A common mistake students do; are not applying. Before you say you are not qualified for it, read the requirements asked. Even if you do not meet them, just apply for it. What is written on your certificates are not the only thing the employer/interviewer look at.

Lastly, for those receiving a less better grades. Cheer up! This is only one phase of your life. There are plenty of other opportunities for you to grab. All you need is the willing to succeed. I have seen so many of my friends who may not be doing well in school but most of them are even doing better than me currently. If you are the ones who are really anticipating of getting a degree, then broaden up your choice. Do not limit yourself to only one particular institution. Consider all options available. No matter where you end up studying, you will basically learn the same thing. It is how you, yourself learn it, is important. If you are the type who are not fond of going to Uni, find something of your interest to improve you skills into. Getting into Uni is not the only option you have.  ;)


Be firm, decide for yourself. Do not let anyone else decide what you should or should not be doing. What you chose now, are going to stay on with you for the rest of your life. Make mistakes along the way. You learn better by making mistakes. Therefore, make sure it is your choice. Even if you make a mistake, it is your mistake so that you will never regret anything in the future.

Take control.

And before I forget, pray so that He gives you a clearer path and helps you in this.
God will not help those who refuse to help themselves. ;)

All the best!

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